How long after my wedding is a good time to get pregnant?
I will be almost 31 by the time I get married, and I do not want to wait long before getting pregnant. I also don’t want to get pregnant too quickly and have anyone doing the math to see if it really happened after we were married? I know the answer to the question is entirely personal preference, but im wondering what some of you might think is a safe amount of time to avoid anyone even wondering. A couple months maybe?
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You shouldn’t worry about anyone “doing the math”. If you know the truth about what’s going on in your married relationship, you should be content with that. Of course, you may not be–but I have a friend who is now pregnant, and got pregnant just about 3 months ago–most likely on her wedding night. It’s not up for discussion with the rest of the world. If you’re not judged for that, you’ll be judged for something else..
Whenever you are ready! Talk to your soon to be hubby about it and discuss when you are ready to stat a family. The clock isn’t ticking for you just yet so you still have some time to enjoy married life. If you both want children and don’t want to plan them, that might be a lot of fun too! I can tell you from personal experience that planning baby sex is sometimes draining. If you just go into marriage and have fun with it, a baby will eventually come along.
Honestly, even if you waited a year or two you would probably be fine. At the same time, if you get started sooner, if you experience fertility problems you can get to a fertility doctor sooner.
As far as people wondering, let them wonder. It’s your life and you and your hubby are the only people that matter in this decision. I’m sure most people would assume you would have a sex life on your wedding night. It may be exciting to your family to have a baby soon.
Good luck!!
I know you are very eager to get started on a family, but
from experience, take some time to just be a couple before having children. My spouse and I had our first child 2 weeks before our first anniversary, and our “baby” just graduated from high school–we have been married for 24 years–we are just now going to get to have some time to truly get to know “each other” and spend some time alone, not raising children or worrying about their needs. We have just always been parents and not been able to focus on each other. Don’t get me wrong–I wouldn’t trade my 2 wonderful sons for anything, and I have a wonderful marriage, but it’s different being focused on children for 24 years and all of a sudden looking at each other after they are grown and going, “okay, who are you?”
if you are ready, do it now
Not b/c of anyone wondering, but for health reasons!