Why should I have to pay for my fertility?
I wrote a question saying that I want to get an abortion. Immediately people say that I made a mistake and shouldn’t take it out on the baby. But, no one cares about the fact that I am on birth control. An IUD, so i didn’t skip a pill or anything like that.
Then there are people telling me to give it up for adoption even though my husband wouldn’t be willing to give the baby up for adoption. I can’t give the baby up for adoption without his permission, We both have to give up parental rights for it to be legal.
I already have 2 kids, and I lost my job a month ago (economy sucks). I can’t afford another child, and if I have another one, I would be so depressed about the money situation that we would all be miserable.
So, my only options are keep the baby or abort the baby. And, I want to know why people think that I should have to suffer because I have sex with my husband. After all if I didn’t have sex with him, I’d be on here depressed asking people for their opinion on why he’s cheating on me. And those same people would be calling me stupid!
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you can never win people always ahve something to b*tch about its nto ok for you to abort but the teenage sl*t who gets pregnant is hero for keeping her mistake child (yes mistake calling it something cute like a suprise does not change that) and using our tax money to pay for it
Just because you had sex in the confines of marriage does not absolve you of taking responsibility of the concequences. And the fact that you were on birth control is irrelevant seeing as how there is only one method of birth control that is absolute.
Although you do use birth control, you know that it isn’t 100% effective. Every time you have sex, with your husband or not, you risk the possibility of pregnancy. If you don’t want anymore kids then maybe it would be a good time to think about getting your tubes tied.
lots of people can not conceive so to them its just selfish of you to be so blasay about abortion
also you being of sound body and mind should no that no birth Control is 100% so if you really really can not chance getting pregnant than don’t have sex (even if your married)
no adoption cause your hubby wouldn’t let you.. what does he think about the abortion? shouldn’t he be included in making this decision..
wow, this is indeed a very difficult situation to be in.
i would like to sympathize with you, really i do, but i can not possibly say that it’s ok to go for an abortion.
i really hope that your husband will reconsider and put it up for adoption instead.
sorry for not being much help, i think all the other comments are really unhelpful as well, but i don’t think it’s necessary to add on to thier negativity towards you.
if only there was a way for me to be having that baby instead. i’ve been trying to have one for the longest time and i haven’t been blessed yet. and here you are wanting to throw yours away…my, what a sorry pair we make.
Why do you care so much what the people on here think. you don’t know them, so who cares. It’s your body, so you do whatever you want with it… Stop stressing about others opinions and concentrate on your life and whats best for you.. good luck
Hi, i can totally understand the delema that you are in, it’s a tough situation, however only you can make the right decision for you. Don’t listen to other people on here giving their opinion when they probably have not been in your situation,i , on the other hand have been exactly where you are right now, i was in a relationship about 5 years ago, taking birth control and also using condoms, my boyfriend at the time decided to take it upon himself to remove the condom he was wearing without my knowing it, well, guess what?? after i realised i immediately took the morning after pill and after all that i still fell pregnant, i had an abortion shortly after that, i don’t regret it at all, it was my decision to make and i didn’t listen to other judging me, as far as i wa concerned i was a responsible adult by usung birth control, condoms and the morning after pill, i didn’t see why i should have to be punished for my boyfriend being a jerk, just like you shouldn’t be judged or punished for having sex with your husband, you were doing the correct and responsible thing by taking birth control to stop a pregnancy from happening, ultimately it’s your choice, your body, your life, you want your children to get everything they need, why sruggle by bringing another mouth to feed if you are already struggling financially, just for the record, i recently got married to the man of my dreams and are 8 weeks pregnant, do i regret the decision i made 5 years ago, hell no, go with your heart. hope this helps.
Thing is, you and your husband are considered to be a single unit in this. If you consider having a child to be “suffering” and he considers it something he wants, this has nothing to do with the rights and wrongs of abortion, this has to do with problems in your marriage. How come you can’t afford to have a child but your husband can? That makes no sense.