Do you want to peer into the life of a woman whose husband of 20 years left her?
Here is a letter she wrote him. He was a doctor who left his wife of 20 years and child for a 26 year old. He said the reason was his wife’s cheating, which happened 7 years before he “decided” to leave her.
Don’t you feel guilty?
After all, you did promise to share your life with me until “death do us part.” Don’t you feel like you are backing out of something important that you promised? No one can make you keep your promise, but your own moral code and ethics. Lots of married people cheat, but not everyone leaves their partner, because after all, one person breaking a promise doesn’t justify another person doing the same thing.
Do you know where your daughter is getting new teeth? What are her newest words? Tell me, what does she do when foam is placed on her little belly during her bath? When does she call for her Dad? To what songs does she like to dance? What are her favorite toys?
How well do you really know her? Do you even care that this is the only child you have.. who is TRULY yours? Yes, you could say that your homewrecker’s child is like a “son” to you, but get a divorce or separation or simply break up and see how much of a “son” he really is.
Does it feel good to spend all of the money that we both worked hard for on people that you just met a few months ago? While I sit up here with my Coach bags stained and old, and my Walmart designer clothes, does it feel good to buy her flowers and gifts and lavish her with expensive things? Tell me, do you ever think of the hours and hours I spent alone while you worked or the heavy price I paid for being your wife? I guess you concluded that even though I went without having kids (yea, I could have left you and got pregnant by someone who actually cared enough to be at home), and even though I struggled with infertility with you and sexual problems, that I just didn’t deserve to get to see your success. Boy I guess I was a stupid person for staying married and trying to keep my promise to you.
I hope it brings your heart great joy to buy Andrew presents, when was the last time you bought Emilee a gift? I guess in your mind, you sold out one daughter for a son. Is that how it worked? You sold out one wife, for another (much younger) one. I bet if you sat down you could tell me all about Andrew’s life. That must make you so proud, to so readily adapt to new people in your life, claiming them as “your own.” You have really demonstrated an ability to personally grow and learn from your mistakes. You have shown me and your daughter that running away from problems and obligations is the easiest, quickest, and most effective solution. You are an outstanding role model, and I want Emilee to grow up with those same morals and ethics.
Emilee honey, if you promise forever and you don’t like what’s going on, and you don’t want to change yourself, you just leave your husband. Yep, that’s right. That’s the thing to do! And you just walk away from your little kids too and don’t give it a second thought. Yes, honey, you are following in your Daddy’s footsteps. You remember him, right? You don’t?!
Do you care that I wake up at night crying and every night in my dreams I ask you why you left? Do you feel bad when I can’t sleep at night.. nervous about who might break in because there is no longer any “man” in the house? You left us unprotected and vulnerable to the ills of society. That must really make you feel manly. Wow you are getting me good for falling into someone else’s arms for the care and affection you never saw fit to give me.
Let’s not even mention that I can’t date anyone because.. who is there left to trust? If a man like “you” can readily step out of a marriage and walk away without even trying to save anything, then any ordinary or average person probably is incapable of keeping a life long commitment, right? I mean, if your word is no good, whose is? The course of action for me is to give up and resign myself that all men will abandon you and their children if their sexual urges aren’t met. Yep, sex is the single most important thing to a man.. other than inflating his ego on a daily basis. After all, wasn’t it you who said “you don’t make me feel like a man!?”
Well, I hope this letter makes you feel a little more like a “man,” Fxxxxxx Pxxxxxx. You are really a person your daughter can be proud of. Wow… an awesome guy.
Emilee loves you, Daddy. Please think of us on Valentine’s Day when you’re at your new home lavishing your new “son” and home wrecking slut with money, gifts, and love…
Love that your wife and daughter will never see.
God Bless you, Daddy.
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She cheated 7 years ago so it doesn’t count?
I am sure she is innocent and pure as the driven snow and he is an evil, nasty, sex maniac who left his happy family for a young slut.
There are always more than one side to every story.
Perhaps the money she and their child receives every month will salve her wounds?
She can’t date anyone now that she is single, but she could date someone when she was married.
If she destroys her daughter’s life, as it seems she wants to do then she will have her revenge.
Life is about tomorrows, not yesterdays.
Live forward or wallow in self pity.
The choices we make don’t always work.We really don’t know what we are doing.Things we do that hurt leave a lasting impression on others.
I think you need to talk to a professional and get some help to deal with your emotions.
Why should it matter? There are women all over the place that if a Man gives them the time of day he may be stupid enough to leave his wife of 20 years for some young pink meat tender and juicy.
So you mean to tell me that a young girl can take what she has between her legs and rip a Mans 20 year marriage apart? He must be one stupid ignorant Man.
What I would do is bang the girl good a couple of times and then say goodbye….lol
Ouch. That’s a lot of pain.
Please don’t send that to him. It makes you a victim.
Start building a life for yourself and Emilee; one that creates a world of safety, love, and peace for the two of you. Let this letter be the end of what happened and open the door to the life that you know you deserve. What he did was terrible but it isn’t the end of the story. You have chapters ahead of how this helped you to create that amazing life and live to your fullest potential.
I don’t believe someone like that has the ability to feel remorse.
Yeah, I’m sure she’s hurt from him leaving her, but does she realize the hurt she caused him for cheating? It’s a lot harder for a man to forgive his woman for cheating than it is for women. The thought of his woman allowing another man’s hands all over her can be hard to bear because that’s something the he feels should be exclusive to only him.
It sounds hypocritical to see her mention things like “trust”, “promise”, “commitment”, and “home wrecking slut” when she was the one who cheated. She should’ve confronted him when she was first feeling the urge of infidelity instead of giving into the excitement first.
I find it quite humorous that one who cheated has the gall to call someone else a home wrecker. That’s hilarious. Sure, he promised to be there forever but she promised to forsake all others. That didn’t work out too well. Given that adultery is, at least in the biblical sense, one of the only valid reasons for divorce then I would say she’s pretty lucky to have gotten seven more years out of him. Honestly, based on what I’ve read, I’m guessing that he spent many years putting up with a very passive-aggressive personality. It’s easy to assign blame and wallow in bitterness, but what is this woman doing to fix her obvious emotional issues? Hint: It’s not his fault she’s the way she is. I’m sure the daughter will be pretty screwed up as well, as I’ve no doubt that mommy works very hard every day to remind her what a scumbag daddy is. It’s manipulation in it’s rawest form if you ask me. I, for one, am happy that dad was finally able to see through the BS and hope he’s able to gain custody of the daughter when mom goes one step too far in withholding visitation and poisoning her mind with her venom.